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| Small LIVE class tutor groups 5 - 15 students. Exam preparation up to 17yrs First College students live in the UK, in Europe or Asia. What kind of students benefit from First College UK? The first Children's Commissioner UK, Professor Al Aynsley-Green, stated that all schools without exception are affected by bullying. In his first public announcement in his new post Prof. Aynesley-Green said "I have had hundreds of in-depth conversations with children since accepting this post, and I can tell you that the one thing every child I have met has been affected by, with virtually no exceptions, is bullying." (BBC 13/11/05) Families often find a haven for a bullied child or young person with us. An online student sensitised by bullying stays in the safety of the home, and meets other students under carefully supervised conditions, without large crowded classes and the demands of a big organisation. Recovery and gradual reasserting of social skills need not be forced; instead it takes place at a natural pace. We have found that it is rare nowadays to need more than a quick nudge to pull a student into better behaviour as we have worked very hard to create a culture of mutual respect. This is laid out in very very clear and specific training, with definite and understandable examples. Gradually we have built up a group sense of good behaviour and self respect. Our software ensures that almost all activities in the school are on record so a tricky incident can be accurately checked. Firm friendly guidance is given - fast, where discourtesy occurs to nip potential bullying behaviour at its root. Guidance can be clearly set out in a written report to the student involved, and if necessary, their family. We include actual quotes of what was said. We sometimes need to counsel a student directly by phone as well. The question arises whether a bullied child is being overprotected at First College UK? We do not think so. The student is dealing with most of the complexity of normal human relationships, just under controlled conditions, such as a school should be. We do not see it as appropriate to force young people to endure the hardships comparable to army boot camp or prison. What this treatment of "toughening up" does is it actually contributes to bullying culture by forcing everyone to join it. Instead we train in self confidence and personal strength, so that our students can not only face the real world but actively spread a better kind of behaviour in it. We have had a lot of feedback from parents that their child has greatly benefited in personal strength by attending First College UK. Without confidence the brain runs on very little fuel, stuttering and straining to cope. With confidence filling the tank, learning zooms away with apparently little effort. First College wants students to be happy just for their own sake. But we NEED happy, confident Students as well because otherwise learning is an uphill grind, painful and slow for all concerned. Our kindly reinforcement of self respect allows a Student to slow down, take things gently, unlearn fears and barriers from past experiences For those just naturally unsure of themselves, they learn to build clearer, stronger ways of communication. First College teachers' mainstay is positive encouragement and acceptance. That does not mean firm discipline cannot be near at hand, ready to step in if necessary very fast indeed. But kindness and patience are the first tools of choice. --can all make physical attendance at school an undesirable extra struggle, using up effort that is needed for working through personal difficulty, coping with disability plus the actual studying. Online education involves no tiring journeys, no lugging of books and equipment, no huge crowds of strangers. First College in particular restricts classes to small, personalised classes with a maximum of 15 (usually 6 - 12). New students go through a careful introductory period during which time teachers and the family, including the student, discuss and agree appropriate plans together. We take pains to be available by phone or email to discuss what is needed. Very often patience, kindness and being down to earth is enough without getting a situation into complicated labels and fuss. With increasing globalisation there are many families who live abroad who want their children to have a British style of education. There are also families who need to move frequently due to work or family reasons. To families like these, online education is an obvious practical solution. Where exams are a priority, the British Council assists to find an examination centre. Such situations usually shut the "away" parent off from the daily needs of their child, which damages the parent relationship. Where the family is happy to involve both partners our online student Report means either partner can check what is happening to their child whenever they wish. They can see detailed information laid out on one page, and also correspond with any teacher if they feel the need. This aspect of our services also acts to include grandparents which is very welcome to some of our families. Frequently there are issues of perfectionism to be addressed which generate anxiety. First College is always delighted to meet the needs of an intellectually demanding student. This is the natural time for a child to need a bit more independence outside the family. They can benefit from external structure, provided it's sensible, they can see the point of it, and it's not too fussy and overwhelming. A day by day learning community provides fresh mental stimulation. Some home educators welcome the feeling of having an experienced partner in us, to talk things over because we learn a lot from other parents we can pass on. Not forgetting that we too were originally home educators. In the mid teens some families very much welcome a thorough support programme for exams. However we would never wish to imply that young people cannot be fully home educated. It's the family's choice, always. We also ask families to accept that though the emphasis in First College is on fun, exploring the classic joy of learning, with a deeply kindly approach to all students, we can and do require a practical level of discipline. A student who ignores kindly style guidance can be instantly closed out of schoool via the software, for the protection of the others. That would be followed up by more individual guidance. Why is it called "First College" when it's a high school or secondary school? We train a strongly collegiate style of studying so that the student learns to take responsibility for their own work and deadlines. It means the transfer to later qualifications, University, or (self) employment is much easier as a result. First College UK is very much a family business. We created it to educate our own son, who is now a trainee online teacher in the school! (under strict supervision) CRB checks (Standard Level) on all teachers; DP registration (Notification reference: jvl530); Please do ask for any of this to be explained. |
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