In order to study efficiently students need to learn -
~ how to work in groups;
~ how to mix with others from different backgrounds;
~ how to get help from teachers, and
~ how to both get help from and give it to other students.
We train in a practical philosophy we call "Shared Space" which students find easy to grasp. "Shared Space" explains how we all have to accept certain limits on what we do when we are using the "Shared Space" of the school (or any shared work project). Both software and caring but firm teachers enable us to nip any bullying blips in the bud before they grow to be troublesome. We do not fuss with elaborate meetings or reports. We get on it fast to sort it out.
The teen years can be a very lonely time which makes having a supportive learning community that much more important. So we encourage friendships to develop through private communication both in and out of school. We teach clear effective ways to handle awkwardness or disagreements constructively so that social skills can mature.
However, being a teenager is a time when privacy and independence is also very important. Some are 'loners' by preference, and some very much need quieter periods for personal reflection when going through difficulties. The option to connect is always there, gently encouraged, but not in any hearty or forced way. |
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